“It’s amazing how quickly life can slap you upside the head.”
I didn’t grow up with a trust fund. I didn’t get handed a bag of cash. And no, I didn’t marry into money (twice, actually… but that’s another story).
I started my financial freedom journey the way most people start theirs — flat broke, stressed out, and wondering why I couldn’t catch a break.
Here’s the unfiltered truth about how I went from broke to building wealth — and how you can too.
The Fall: Divorce, Debt, and Dumb Decisions
Let’s rewind a bit. A few years back, I hit the trifecta of financial pain:
- A divorce that nuked my bank account
- Tens of thousands in debt staring me in the face
- A “broke mindset” that told me this was just how life was
I told myself all the usual lies: “You’ll figure it out later.” “Everyone has debt.” “You need the nice car to feel successful.”
But here’s the problem: “later” never comes. And debt doesn’t care about your excuses — it just grows, like a financial mold in your life.
The Wake-Up Call
My turning point wasn’t dramatic. No repo man showing up (at least not THIS time). No foreclosure notice. Just a Tuesday morning, staring at my bank app, realizing I was working harder every year but getting further and further behind.
It hit me: if I didn’t change something, this cycle would chew me up until retirement — and “retirement” would just mean working until I die.
The Climb Back
I wish I could tell you I turned it all around overnight, but the reality? It was boring, consistent, unsexy work:
- Stopped adding new debt — Cold turkey. Credit cards went in the drawer.
- Cut spending — Not by living in a cave, but by nuking the dumb stuff.
- Made more money — Picked up side gigs, sold unused junk, learned new skills.
- Built an emergency fund — Just $1,000 at first. It was my safety net.
- Attacked debt like it owed me — HAD to get it gone!.
Where I’m At Now
I’m not writing this from a yacht (yet), but I’ve paid off over $100K, built a healthy savings buffer, and started investing.
The biggest change? My mindset. I stopped thinking like a broke guy trying to survive, and started acting like a future-rich guy building his freedom.
Your Takeaway
If you’re at the “broke and stressed” stage right now, don’t get lost in the big picture. Just take one step: stop the financial bleeding. Then take another step. Then another.
The financial freedom journey isn’t magic — it’s momentum. And you can start today.
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